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Five Liberating Romantic Truths
By Scott Petullo
Co-author of Your Love Life and Reincarnation Why The Past Is Affecting Your Present and How To Fix It
The love life realities we've discovered through
our work since 1992 aren't entirely easy to digest,
especially for those with old-fashioned romantic
values. Even we find some of them troubling.
We've been accused of having fatalistic
viewpoints, yet even though some of the below
information may seem a bit harsh, objectively
weighing and even eventually accepting it can
help you gain happiness and improve your life.
1) While it's not easy to let go sometimes, you
must if you want to flow with your life instead
of battling it, which will only cause you more
stress and make you miserable. For example,
you want to remain in your current love
relationship, yet circumstances beyond your
control force you apart, or your mate wants to
dissolve the union and there's nothing you can
do to change their mind. On the bright side, if
you had great love life timing during this
transition (as previously forecasted by a
professional) it may very well be representative
of an entirely new lover, unrelated to the one
that you are trying to hang onto. Expectations
of fulfilling, lasting (e.g., life-long, until at least
the 50-year anniversary date, etc.) love
connections aren't reasonable. Remember, we
all have more than one soul mate (some are
more compatible than others) and few
relationships are destined to last forever,
though unconditional love does transcend
lifetimes.
2) The duration of a relationship is predictable
and is just another life situation symbolically
ruled by comprehensive cyclical timing methods.
For example, you enter a romantic relationship
under lucrative, yet "...ends sooner than
expected..." love timing. One year later you
enter better romantic timing, some of the best
of your life. Does it mean that you will
automatically go deeper into the existing bond
and enjoy even better relations with your current
love? It could mean that to some degree, at
various points during the timeframe, but what
transpires is dependent upon your mate's timing
and the compatibility energy between you two.
You might be fated to split with your lover (at
the very least, on an emotional level) under your
upcoming great love life timing and connect
with somebody else.
By the way, when we talk about duration of
a relationship, we're talking about when a
relationship has naturally run its course,
when it's clear that it's over (to those free of
self-deception), not when the two people finally
go their separate ways years or decades later.
Staying trapped in a relationship that's
over is like over-sleeping until late afternoon
on a beautiful day; you're wasting precious
time.
3) Considering that you have many soul mates,
any given fantastic love life phase could easily
include two or more new romantic interests, and
they don't always show up at the most appropriate
times, as fate dictates. In our Love Life Timeline's
(see scottpetullo.com for more information )
"additional information" page, we state that under
the most favorable love life periods for any given
person, "Single people are empowered to capitalize
on the best times in their lives for seeking romantic
partners, and for those already in committed
relationships, the Love Life Timeline displays the
most opportune times to deepen love connections."
But that doesn't guarantee 100% romantic delight
with the lover you're already committed to.
The timeframe offering "...most rewarding love
connections...," for example, where love timing
is at a peak point, might include dramatic discord
and subsequent dissolution of an existing love
relationship upon entering the period, even if that
type of situation isn't reflected in the overall
forecast. The circumstances outlined in Love Life
Timelines, for instance, are most fitting for people
actively looking for new love, and those couples who
are aware of and realistic about the length of time
they are destined to be together. Aside from the
subject's personal timing based on cyclical timing
methods and their natal personality traits, you
must also weigh the new partner's personal
timing and the compatibility energy.
4) Be sure to proceed carefully with any new
love interests when you're under rough love life
or financial timing, as it could result in loss. To
know about your fate, aside from your romantic
timing, consider carefully the financial timing
(e.g., the timing outlined in a Money Timeline,
as symbolized by all the collective, related,
astrological and numerological time cycles in
connection with natal indications) when you meet
a new love interest. Although you may not have
fantastic financial timing three years after you first
connect with your mate, for example, the fact that
you did when you met him or her is highly
reflective of the financial fate of the connection.
This concept of placing great emphasis on your
personal timing at the start of anything significant
in your life also applies to other areas of life such
as relocation or starting a new career. For further
clarity, it's also important to consider the natal and
timing indications of anyone else directly or indirectly
related to your love relationships, such as through
legal arrangements, including family, business
partners or other circumstances.
5) Instead of hoping your love interest is "the
one" for a lifetime, be grateful that they are in
your life now and accept each relationship for
what and how long it's meant to be, while at the
same time doing what you can to make the most
of it. You have the opportunity to learn and grow
from each person you meet. Each connection is
invaluable in what it offers from a spiritual
perspective, no matter the duration.
Scott Petullo and Stephen Petullo offer vital, yet sensible and practical spiritual guidance and tools, including their Spiritual Detox and Let Go MP3 meditation audios. Get their free report: 13 Spiritual and New Age Myths and 13 Other Spiritual Laws Besides the Law of Attraction. Website: spiritualgrowthnow.com. They are the authors of Your Love Life and Reincarnation: Why The Past Is Affecting Your Present and How To Fix It.
Other Articles by Scott and Stephen Petullo
Why Sex is More Challenging for the Spiritually Sensitive
Sex and Spirituality - Why Great Sex is Rare
17 Dating Tips for Mystics
Death, Spirit Possession, and Mediums
13 Other Spiritual Laws Beyond the Law of Attraction
 
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